No, I refuse to be a Team Player!
Upon discovering my Personality Type as INFP, it explains my resistance and dislikes working in a “team” environment at a place of employment. Although I enjoy working with people, my preference is working by myself.
I wrote this article a few years ago while seeking employment and still chuckle at this “Team Player” question.
Succeeding in having your resume read these days is a true triumph, but receiving an invite for an interview is bliss!
Skipping the key interview portion, which you surmise has gone extremely well and approached the end, whereby the interviewer now asks this clichéd, question: Are You A ‘Team Player’?
Tanja Heffner1. They can meet you where you are. Sometimes your biggest fear in falling for someone is that you aren’t quite ready, or that there’s something holding you back (an ex, a broken past, a nervousness, etc.) from experiencing real love. With emotionally intelligent people, it doesn’t matter if you’re timid about getting to…
Who am I to judge you? Who are you to judge me?
Dictionary: Judgement: the ability to judge, make a decision, or form an opinion objectively, authoritatively, and wisely, esp. in matters affecting action; good sense; discretion: a man of sound judgment.
Stigma: a mark of disgrace or infamy; a stain or reproach, as on one’s reputation; a mental or physical mark that is characteristic of a defect or disease: the stigmata of leprosy
In my opinion, judgment intertwines with stigma. Why do we judge?
I have voiced about my personal encounter with both judgment and stigma in my other blog “Living in Stigma“, and a perfect example was a family member.
Not long after my hospitalizations years ago with major depression, my brother-in-law severed ties with my spouse and me fearing for his children (or so he claimed). I really questioned at times if he believed I was going to attack him with a knife!
Lavender oil is a remarkable essential oil that has a great amount of benefit to your health. It has a gentle and beautiful smell, and its powerful taste makes it a household favorite. It has a chemically complex structure with over 150 active constituents, which explains its effectiveness at helping with a lot of health ailments.
Some of those properties are the amazing anti-inflammatory, antifungal, antidepressant, antiseptic, antibacterial, antimicrobial, antispasmodic, analgesic, detoxifier, hypotensive, and sedative effects it has on our body. One of the many ways to use lavender oil is to flavor your lemonade with it and get a tasty and healthy drink with multiple medicinal benefits.
This is how to prepare it:
- 1 cup raw honey
- 12 cups pure water
- 1 drop lavender essential oil
- 6 lemons, peeled and juiced
- Lavender sprigs for garnish
Directions: Mix all ingredients together and chill. Add more water or raw honey if needed. Info source: http://www.sejat-jasmani.com/2016/10/this-lavender-lemonade-recipe-will-get.html
*I’ve never tried this recipe, mainly due to my dislike of lavender!
It’s exhilarating (perhaps I’m a bit dramatic) to discover that there are 16 Personality Types and one type that illustrates your traits. My scores, after undertaking two different tests, both conclude that I’m an INFP Type Personality, with their qualities so ‘dead on’ to my own. It’s almost spooky!
With various personality traits, I often considered myself as an oddball; unique from others who rarely mull over or sense things the way I do, or perceive the world and people.
I’ve been in therapy for some years (PTSD) and have discussed the way I operate day to day, and now there is a name for it!
A few of my odd ways:
Atelophobia ( word of the day )
I discovered I’m an INFP